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At Imperfectly You, our mission is to unite adult industry workers globally by providing a safe, supportive space for connection, resources, and growth. Specifically for women and queer folk, our platform offers a place to come together, support one another, and thrive. Whether you’re just starting out or looking for a community to help you level up, we provide the tools, resources, and connections you need to grow personally and professionally.

If you are 18+ and can verify you work in the industry, it’s completely free to join.

Plus, we’ll give you a 30-day free trial of our premium Thrive & Grow membership — no credit card required!

Membership Types

Free Membership

Free access for life!

If you work in the adult industry and are seeking a space to connect, share experiences, and access trusted resources, this membership is for you. You’ll get exclusive free access to our Community Hub & Industry Hub for community and support.

Benefits Include :

A safe space to ask questions, share experiences, and get advice from industry peers.

Access to trusted service providers, support and resources.

Updates on upcoming free and paid events, workshops, and opportunities.

A supportive network that combats isolation and stigma.

Access to the Thrive & Grow feed, with expert tips on well-being and personal and professional growth.

Once verified, enjoy free lifetime access—plus a 30-day free trial to Thrive & Grow.

Thrive & Grow Membership

$14.99 per month - unlocks ALL

Ready to take your growth to the next level? The Thrive & Grow Membership offers expert-led events and workshops, group coaching, and resources to help unlock your full potential—personally and professionally.

Membership Benefits :

All of the benefits of our free membership. Plus:

Over six expert-led events each month, including workshops, webinars, and group coaching.

Exclusive educational content, including wellbeing resources, self-help guides, and work-related resources.

A Social Hub for personal expression, celebrating wins, and connecting with members.

A collaborative environment to set goals, celebrate achievements, and provide encouragement.

Just $14.99/month, with your first 30 days completely free—no card needed to start.

Once verified, you’ll receive 30 days of free access to Thrive & Grow, with no obligation to continue and lifetime access to our Community and Industry Hub, ensuring ongoing support.

A Safe, Supportive Environment

We understand the challenges of finding genuine, non-judgmental support in the adult industry. At Imperfectly You, everyone is a verified adult worker, ensuring you connect with people who truly understand your experiences—free from competition and drama.

Why join?

Exclusive Resources & Events

Gain access to expert-led workshops, peer discussions, and resources on safety, personal growth, and career development. From legal advice to self-help guides, everything you need to succeed is here.

Community & Belonging

Feeling isolated or disconnected? Our Free Community and Thrive & Grow Memberships provide a space for authentic connections, empowerment, and support, where you truly belong.

How to Join

To join, simply complete our verification process to confirm your status as an adult industry worker. Here's how it works :

Step 1 - Complete the application form : Provide links to your adult work pages and socials (visible only to our moderators).

Step 2 - Respond to our communications : Our moderators will review your info and reach out within 3 working days for next steps. This may include messaging us from your adult work sites or a brief Zoom call.

Step 3 - Get verified : Once verified, you’ll receive full access to all the benefits, tools, and support within Imperfectly You.

If you are 18+ and can verify you work in the industry, it’s completely free to join. Plus, we’ll give you a 30-day free trial of Thrive & Grow — no credit card required!

Not able to join as a member?

If you can’t verify, don’t worry—we still have your back! Sign up for Imperfectly You Connect and get access to updates on support, services, events, and resources—all sent directly to your inbox.